Tonight when I was gardening though I had a few thoughts,
1) Its okay to pull out a plant even if it is doing well. If you don't like it or its out grown its space or you just are ready for a change, then pull it up. No guilt about it, just embrace what you feel.
2) Deal with what you got. I can't make my gardens into no stop flowering beds, I just don't have the sun or soil. I can make them interesting place for hostas, ferns and other unique plants. No matter how bad I want that sun garden, I just don't have it. And when I get to focused on what I don't have I then start to not see what beauty I do have.
Hmm... these lesson might have some impact beyond the garden.